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>>the idea that commitment is synonymous with exclusivity
>But that's how it is. If you're committed, you can give up this little bit of hedonism away for someone you love.

I have met so many women who simply reject this and fail at every partnership, but its somehow always mens fault and never connected to their hedonistic (often clearly narcissistic) habits.

>>the idea that your value to a partner is directly proportional to the amount of time and energy they spend on you, and it is in zero-sum competition with everything else they value in life
>This is never a case when you're not a self-centered asshole. 

Exactly. She projects.

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